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A suggestion by a fan points Episode 19 of The Sissy Whisper in the direction of Strappy vs Pegging. Pegging, a term coined by Dan Savage and his podcast listeners actually has a reason for being.
In this episode, I will discuss that reason. Also, I will give my opinion on the two, and might even give you another way to look at the term.
Resource links
- Pegging and the heterosexualization of anal sex: An analysis of Savage Love advice –
- Savage Love We Have a Winner! by Dan Savage
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I will acknowledge your right to your opinion that being fucked in the ass cannot “turn a man gay”. I would hope that you will grant me my opinion. Fucking a straight man in the ass, over time, will turn him gay. The is especially true if the man identifies as a submissive or a sissy. Being fucked in the ass will eventually alter the man’s perception of his sexual world As his primary erogenous zone is transferred from his cock to his boi pussy, he will no longer find traditional straight sex enjoyable, This man will. sooner or later, find the strap=on or the dildo inadequate and seek out something more pleasurable and more powerful-a real cock attached to a real man.He will fall in love with real cock and soon after fall in love with man who wields it. His understanding of the sexual, romantic world, and his place in it, will become “gay” Thank you for giving me the opportunity to express my opinion.
sam
You’re welcome! Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and thanks for sharing yours. I do have a response because I have heard your theory many times before and I can certainly understand why you would feel that way. You see, most people, yes, men & women, fetishize anal sex and homosexuality as the same. Part of that fetish is to “know” that once you’re penetrated in any way with a toy or penis, it hits that “on/off” button activating gay desires.
However, all it does is give the receiver the knowledge of what anal penetration is. From there, they decide if they enjoy it, or not.
Anal penetration is a sexual act, no more, no less.
Being homosexual, or gay in this case, is a personality trait you are born with. Just like you are born straight, bi, pan, trans, this is who a person is. Not made. Plenty of gay men have had sex with women and they still desire to be with men. They were never turned straight.
Also, a gay man doesn’t always participate in anal penetration. Many gay men don’t participate in sex at all. Being gay is a love, a desire, a comfort, and a need for a person/partner of the same sex. That is all. Nothing to do with the act of sex, only to do with the emotional connection with the same sex.
The takeaway is to understand that anal penetration is an action, and has nothing to do with loving someone who is the same sex as yourself.
My wife and I use the terms pegging and strap on interchangeably. To me, it really doesn’t matter which term is used. It’s all fun.
As to whether it can turn you gay, who cares? Life is meant to be enjoyed. Don’t judge yourself and don’t judge others. If you’re straight, great! If you’re gay, great! If you’re bi, great! If you’re a pathetic Sissy loser like me, embrace it!
I love when my wife uses her strap on on me. My fantasy is for her to cuckold me. It would be an honor to have her force me to take it up the ass by a guy, while she was getting fucked by her bull. Whether that makes me gay, I really don’t care. I love being her sissy .
Thank you